Frozen Cherry Cheesecake

80's Retro Dessert-7It’s seldom that I feel to bear my heart in a way which might not brighten up your day.

I have never found myself tempted to relate a poignant tale only to follow it up with a pretty cake. The frivolous and the earnest make an awkward, uncomfortable pair. Today I am making an exception in response to the loss of our sister-in-law Nicole.

If you would rather skip to the bottom and simply read the quick note on this Frozen Cherry Cheesecake I completely understand.

My heart is so heavy and laid low. I feel ungrateful and simply rather sad by the realisation that my reality, despite my opinion of it, is actually rather grand.

Life dishes out knocks. I know this to be true. I have taken a few blows to the nose myself. I am well acquainted with what plain old sucky feels like. I understand hurt. I have survived heartache and disappointment, rancid humiliation. I do not doubt that you have encountered much of the same yourself.

In fact, come to think of it, I have lived through pain in both its physical and rather more damaging emotional form. I may be scarred but I am certainly not damaged. I have always refused to be irreparable.

My setbacks have caused me a degree of affliction, but they certainly hold no measure against true suffering. And this most fortunate lack denies me the ability to fully comprehend it. I can however recognize suffering. I like to think that we can all in fact recognize suffering; empathy is a rare beauty in the human condition. How I wish with all my heart that I could not see it now.

Fairest Nicole,

How the hearts of so very many people ache for your handsome boys and your treasured little girl. How many of those who loved you despite the tears running down their own cheeks have rushed to hold up the arms of your dear husband as he loses himself to his grief.

Our sadness over your loss is deepened by the extent to which we feel so utterly helpless to mend their precious broken hearts.

It is in the death of the young and the beautiful that we truly come face to face with our fallibility as human beings. It is a young death like yours that is the most powerful. We turn our faces to the sky and try to make sense of the nonsensical. We have no words, and neither should we because the wise know that a young death can and does render us speechless. But still we are desperate for something to say, that one thing that might lift the weight of the tragedy and fill this gaping void. We know not what to do about a life left so obviously unfinished.

For now we pray and wait on comfort and the peace that surpasses all understanding. We will love fiercely those that you have left in our care. We will be the hope they need until they find hope again for themselves.

We promise that even when life resumes and they seem to be doing okay that we will pay attention to their moments tinged with sadness because they simply long for you. We will speak to them about you freely and often. We will remember your birthday; the way your delicate gold jewelry hung softly from your wrists and spun around your slim fingers. We will remember your laugh so contagious and warm. We will remember you their proud mummy. We will remember you the love of his life.

Nic, we will never forget.

Love always, Sam

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So this Frozen Cherry Cheesecake comes directly to you from the eighties. This was one dessert which I clearly remember asking my mom to make for me. The ingredients are a retro delight of Tennis Biscuits and cherries from a can. My parents were obviously very rich back in the day and never thought to tell us because I about near fainted when I saw the cost of stoned canned cherries. Despite my state of shock I was still able to make it home and throw this dessert together in about five minutes thanks to it being a skill level one kind of thing.

Sophistication it is certainly not, but love it you most certainly will. Its okay, just roll with it.

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Frozen Cherry Cheesecake
 
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Serves: 8
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Ingredients
  • 125 g butter
  • 125 ml (½ C) sugar
  • 1 egg
  • 250 g plain cream cheese
  • 5 ml (1 t) vanilla essence
  • 1 packet Tennis Biscuits
  • 1 x 410 g can stoned black cherries, drained
  • 2 x 80 g slabs plain chocolate
Instructions
  1. Cream the butter and sugar until pale and light.
  2. Add the egg and beat well.
  3. Add the cream cheese and the vanilla essence.
  4. Lay the tennis biscuits out on large piece of cling wrap in 4 x 3 rows.
  5. Use a spatula to spread the cream cheese filling evenly over the biscuits.
  6. Place as many of the cherries as you would like to use in a row down the center.
  7. Melt one slab of chocolate and pour it over the cherries.
  8. Use the cling wrap to help you to bring up the two side rows of tennis biscuits up such that you form a triangle wedge.
  9. Secure the cling wrap and freeze overnight.
  10. Remove the triangle from the freezer.
  11. Melt the remaining slab of chocolate and pour over the top of the triangle. The chocolate should set very quickly.
  12. Slice into slices and serve.

 

14 Comments on Frozen Cherry Cheesecake

  1. Dimity leslie wilkinson
    August 19, 2014 at 5:32 pm (3 years ago)

    Your words so eloquently spoken, will be cherished I am sure for those who need them most. God has a plan. It is in progress as we speak. He will not let us down. Sadness must take its course though, and as it does, us that are not as affected, hold those who are up in prayer…. Love you Sam .

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    • sam
      August 20, 2014 at 8:55 am (3 years ago)

      Yes, the process is important. Thank you Dimmi x

      Reply
  2. Rosemary Gough
    August 19, 2014 at 5:37 pm (3 years ago)

    Lots of love and strength to you and your family. It is a hard long road, but keep faith in your love.

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    • sam
      August 20, 2014 at 8:54 am (3 years ago)

      Thank you Rose. Knowing that you do completely understand what they are feeling your words carry much weight.

      Reply
  3. Anina @ Aninas Recipes
    August 19, 2014 at 6:49 pm (3 years ago)

    Such amazing words, so sorry for your loss, many wishes of peace and strength to you! Lovely recipe, by the way!

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    • sam
      August 20, 2014 at 8:53 am (3 years ago)

      Thank you Anina. My mom will be very proud that you like her recipe!

      Reply
  4. Tandy | Lavender and Lime
    August 19, 2014 at 8:09 pm (3 years ago)

    What a beautiful and poignant post Sam and the perfect dessert to go with it. Welcome your hubby home tomorrow with love and gratitude. Hugs xxx

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    • sam
      August 20, 2014 at 8:52 am (3 years ago)

      Thank you my friend x

      Reply
  5. Cheryl Marriott
    August 19, 2014 at 8:34 pm (3 years ago)

    I am so touched that my recipe was the one you turned to today. With years comes the horrible experience of loosing someone you love and the assurance I can give that is that time does heal that hurt. Sending all my love across the miles xx mom

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    • sam
      August 20, 2014 at 8:57 am (3 years ago)

      Thanks Mama!

      Reply
  6. Kit
    August 20, 2014 at 8:27 am (3 years ago)

    It’s so hard to write about loss, and you have had the strength to put down in words that raw speechless feeling. As you say a young death feels that much more powerful and harder to understand, at least with those who go later in their life you can comfort yourself that it was their time. Sending love to you in this difficult time.

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    • sam
      August 20, 2014 at 8:52 am (3 years ago)

      Thank you Kit. The writer will always find comfort in words, even the hard to write ones. It is so cathartic.

      Reply
  7. RashiedaUncut
    August 20, 2014 at 8:54 am (3 years ago)

    This is such a beautiful post Sam!

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    • sam
      August 20, 2014 at 9:09 am (3 years ago)

      Thank you Rashieda – the brutally honest ones have a way of standing a step apart from the rest.

      Reply

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